Talking to Ghosts? The Time a Medium Connected to My Dead Former Fling

“I have a man here in Spirit who looks super yummy!” the woman said as she stood at the front of the chapel at Arthur Findlay College in Stanstead, UK. Our group at the college was doing platform mediumship which is a form of mediumship where the medium stands in front of an audience and gives messages to audience members from loved ones in spirit. I had known 2 very handsome men in spirit, so I had raised my hand to let her know I could take her description.

As soon as I put my hand up, a few other young women put theirs up too. So she continued to say that he had been sort of a lover, that he had a son that was from a previous marriage, was a rebel, he died very young but he died from an accident not a suicide, and that he had dark curly hair and dark eyes. I then knew who she was talking about. My neighbour who I used to hook up with who had died in a kite surfing accident a few years prior.

The message was for me but not actually for me. I had been happy though knowing he had passed onto the other side peacefully. The message was for his son who would have been younger than 10 years old at the time of his father’s passing. The medium told me that he wanted to apologize to his son for not being able to father him growing up and if I could tell his son this.

Though I know I am probably not the right person to tell him this as I never really knew his son, I just hooked up with his Dad occasionally. Part of me is kind of hoping that by posting this story it’ll somehow reach his son in an appropriate way. And that his son and loved ones know that he is at peace and that he’s sorry he can’t be a fatherly figure in his life.